Problem solved.....

Well, I solved the problem with the preschool teacher that I wasn't too fond of. I went to the preschool director on Wednesday after I dropped off Aric in his class and told her how upset I was. The tears that were coming down my face probably told her that too. She said taht she didn't want me to pull him out and that she thought that we could work something out. Soooo, I had Aric switched to another class. It bumped him down to 2 days a week, but in my book 2 is better than none!! Even better about it is that the teacher that he has was Dehlia's assistant teacher when she was in the 3yr old class. The assistant teacher that Aric has now we know also. Her daughter is on Madison's soccer team. I felt so much better leaving him in class on Thursday. It was so much relief. I think that Aric will now be in a loving enviroment that will help him learn.

On the pottying front, we are doing pretty good. Having our accidents, but mainly becuase we need to go poop and we are scared to do that in the potty. We did poop in the potty on Monday, but I think he was at the point where he could hold it no longer. We rewared him with 4 cars. He was thrilled. We have gotten more prizes for pooping in the potty and he knows where they are. We tell him that if he poops in the potty he can have one. He really wants the Cars Movie coloring book that is up there right now. We'll see how long it takes him to get it. He has pottied at school too. 4 times on Wednesday and twice on Thursday! Yeah Aric!! Once I get him settled in the new class, I will send him in underwear. He has been keeping dry in pull ups at school and at home too. Just a matter of time now!!!

At last.....

I am updating this blog. We've been busy, go figure. Wanted to first say a big THANK YOU to Jennifer at craftygiveaways for the wonderful package of quilt blocks. Now I just need to decide if I want to orient the blocks in this layout......

or in this layout.....

Any feedback/opinions????

Then the happenings since I last updated. We've put the floor back together. The moulding went down tonight. Now to paint and caulk then it will be completely fixed (I hope!!). We've been out of town the last 2 weekends. The last weekend of August was spent in Charlotte at a soccer tournament for Madi's soccer team. They came in second place in their division!!! Labor Day Weekend was spent in VA visiting and helping parents. We helped my parents by doing some yard work and went to the Zoo with Derek's Mom (Dad wasn't feeling good) then went to the beach.



In between these weekends, Aric had his meet the teacher at preschool. While there for that, I was lucky to get out of there alive. I felt like Aric's new teacher was out to prove me the worst mother in the world because he isn't potty trained. I tried to explain taht he just turned 3 in July. Should he be potty trained??? I don't feel like he is ready. Also, we pushed the girls and didn't want to push him since pushing the girls created TONS of problems. Sooo, since the preschool wants him potty trained we are trying 1/2 naked times at the house. Aric gets to run around in the house in a shirt and nothing else. We started Wednesday afternoon and have been doing pretty good. I have kept him upstairs and he tells us that the tinkle is coming out and we run to the potty and go. We also race him there when we foresee him needing to go and most of the time he goes then too. Now to work our way into underpants. We've tried underpants today, but I don't thin he is that far yet. We've been just peeing in them like a diaper. He realizes that he is going and we run and go potty. Hopefully the lightbulb will click on fully soon. The preschool told me if he wasn't trained and had an accident of the poop variety they would change the first one, then they would call me to come and chage the next one. DO WHAT???? I have been very upset with all of this and frustrated at the same time. What's a mom to do. I am just trying to get thru the next week and if I come home next week feeling as crappy as I did about all of this then, I will probably pull him from the school. It's not fair to him or me to be treated this way. I can't make him be ready. Can I??? Any advice would be appreciated. The picture is of him on his first day of preschool. He has gotten too big too quick. He didn't want to go to school, but did really well (well except for the potty issues). Had to drag him somewhat on Friday. I thin kit is just going to take him getting used to the new routine and environment and teachers. Also, the girls go back to school on Modnay, so it will just be him and I going to preschool for dropoff. HOpefully the potty isses and everything will work out soon!!

Later!